{"id":3436,"date":"2022-12-06T15:33:09","date_gmt":"2022-12-06T14:33:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/websfigueres.com\/abcpsicologos\/?p=3436"},"modified":"2022-12-29T17:39:53","modified_gmt":"2022-12-29T16:39:53","slug":"por-que-elijo-parejas-toxicas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/websfigueres.com\/abcpsicologos\/por-que-elijo-parejas-toxicas\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 elijo parejas t\u00f3xicas?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"3436\" class=\"elementor elementor-3436\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-cc52638 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"cc52638\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-d41137f\" data-id=\"d41137f\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0a650f6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"0a650f6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">\u00bfPorqu\u00e9 elijo parejas t\u00f3xicas?<\/h1>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-1c01953 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1c01953\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-8af3400\" data-id=\"8af3400\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b55b431 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b55b431\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0cm; font-size: medium; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; caret-color: #000000; color: #000000;\">En este video voy a contestar a porqu\u00e9 elijo parejas que son t\u00f3xicas y otras que te rondan la cabeza como el porqu\u00e9:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"font-size: medium; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; caret-color: #000000; color: #000000;\">No me acuerdo de mis relaciones familiares t\u00f3xicas.<\/li>\n<li class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"font-size: medium; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; caret-color: #000000; color: #000000;\">Evito el compromiso o la intimidad.<\/li>\n<li class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"font-size: medium; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; caret-color: #000000; color: #000000;\">Invierto en exceso en mis parejas.<\/li>\n<li class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"font-size: medium; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; caret-color: #000000; color: #000000;\">Porqu\u00e9 elijo parejas t\u00f3xicas o que son superficiales.<\/li>\n<li class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"font-size: medium; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; caret-color: #000000; color: #000000;\">Dependo de personas que me tratan mal.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0cm; font-size: medium; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; caret-color: #000000; color: #000000;\">Y tambi\u00e9n \u00bfQu\u00e9 otras secuelas generaron una infancia dif\u00edcil?<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-b5b285e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"b5b285e\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-50500cc\" data-id=\"50500cc\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1296982 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1296982\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Disfruta de nuestro video sobre los patrones de Relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xicos. <\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-135916d elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"135916d\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-a6264ab\" data-id=\"a6264ab\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ed24b38 elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"ed24b38\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/youtu.be\\\/9xFRHsSzVSA&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-7e7801e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"7e7801e\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-c5f92f4\" data-id=\"c5f92f4\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b353e36 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b353e36\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-0b2a33f elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"0b2a33f\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-12ab620\" data-id=\"12ab620\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f44c54c elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"f44c54c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Nuestras elecciones de parejas t\u00f3xicas  y la manera de relacionarnos...<\/h3>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-c5a731b elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"c5a731b\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5814f2b\" data-id=\"5814f2b\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-efbe95d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"efbe95d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p style=\"margin: 0cm; font-size: medium; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; caret-color: #000000; color: #000000;\">todos nosotros cuando somos ni\u00f1os necesitamos vincularnos sin fisuras a nuestros progenitores de forma segura. Nuestros padres deben ser para nosotros cuando somos ni\u00f1os un modelo sin tacha para que se pueda producir dicha vinculaci\u00f3n. Si no es as\u00ed eliminaremos de nuestra mente cualquier dato disonante que pueda entrar en conflicto con la figura de un progenitor ideal para que nos podamos apegar.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm; font-size: medium; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; caret-color: #000000; color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm; font-size: medium; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; caret-color: #000000; color: #000000;\">Tanto es as\u00ed, que en ocasiones para poder encajar todas las piezas y mantener impoluta la idea de un progenitor seguro a veces es necesario que asumamos t\u00f3xicamente la responsabilidad del maltrato infantil recibido como algo merecido.\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/websfigueres.com\/abcpsicologos\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Los psic\u00f3logos especializados en terapia de pareja<\/a>\u00a0llamamos a esto invertir el locus de control externo por uno interno.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm; font-size: medium; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; caret-color: #000000; color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-0d95700 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"0d95700\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-69c9db8\" data-id=\"69c9db8\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5d93dd9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"5d93dd9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h4 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Todos nosotros cuando somos ni\u00f1os necesitamos vincularnos sin fisuras ...<\/h4>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-fa09308 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"fa09308\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4b09e54\" data-id=\"4b09e54\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7537376 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7537376\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p style=\"margin: 0cm; font-size: medium; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; caret-color: #000000; color: #000000;\">a nuestros progenitores de forma segura. Nuestros padres deben ser para nosotros cuando somos ni\u00f1os un modelo sin tacha para que se pueda producir dicha vinculaci\u00f3n. Si no es as\u00ed eliminaremos de nuestra mente cualquier dato disonante que pueda entrar en conflicto con la figura de un progenitor ideal para que nos podamos apegar.\u00a0<\/p><p style=\"margin: 0cm; font-size: medium; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; caret-color: #000000; color: #000000;\">Tanto es as\u00ed, que en ocasiones para poder encajar todas las piezas y mantener impoluta la idea de un progenitor seguro a veces es necesario que asumamos t\u00f3xicamente la responsabilidad del maltrato infantil recibido como algo merecido. Los psic\u00f3logos llamamos a esto invertir el locus de control externo por uno interno.\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-1d3667e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1d3667e\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-72e20f6\" data-id=\"72e20f6\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6347665 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"6347665\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h5 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Socialmente la familia es una instituci\u00f3n sagrada...<\/h5>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3f77fda elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3f77fda\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-19bbad2\" data-id=\"19bbad2\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0fe21e4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"0fe21e4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0cm; font-size: medium; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; caret-color: #000000; color: #000000;\">que goza de un estatus inviolable. El grupo reacciona de forma agresiva cuando atacamos o cuestionamos la conducta de unos padres manipuladores, ausentes, desatentos, indiferentes, fr\u00edos o simplemente malvados.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0cm; font-size: medium; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; caret-color: #000000; color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0cm; font-size: medium; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; caret-color: #000000; color: #000000;\">Se experimentar\u00eda un choque entre la figura idealizada de unos padres atentos y afectuosos y la cruda realidad. Este conflicto entre ambos extremos produce en nosotros una desaz\u00f3n emocional que los psic\u00f3logos llamamos disonancia cognitiva.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0cm; font-size: medium; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; caret-color: #000000; color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0cm; font-size: medium; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; caret-color: #000000; color: #000000;\">Debemos tener en cuenta que el progenitor t\u00f3xico es un gran experto en marketing y marca personal. Se proyecta en p\u00fablico como alguien atento, protector, generoso, bondadoso, responsable para compensar sus constantes abusos y manipulaciones.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3369f3f elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3369f3f\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-a186b4f\" data-id=\"a186b4f\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-523c6a9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"523c6a9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h6 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Instrumentos t\u00f3xicos...<\/h6>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-0688a4f elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"0688a4f\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3313526\" data-id=\"3313526\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-be40ff4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"be40ff4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0cm; font-size: medium; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; caret-color: #000000; color: #000000;\">son muchos los instrumentos t\u00f3xicos que nuestra familia puede utilizar para victimizarnos o convertirnos en ni\u00f1os enfermos. Algunos de estos instrumentos son el pensamiento extremo, la generalizaci\u00f3n o etiqueta, la observaci\u00f3n selectiva o visi\u00f3n de t\u00fanel, la adivinaci\u00f3n de intenciones o pensamientos entre otras. Y la guinda del pastel que supone la artiller\u00eda pesada: ataque en grupo de toda la familia a la vez como un frente com\u00fan contra nosotros, ni\u00f1os indefensos. Si ha sido as\u00ed en el futuro elegiremos parejas t\u00f3xicas y lo normalizaremos.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-6de8e6f elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"6de8e6f\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-f2be954\" data-id=\"f2be954\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f866f06 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"f866f06\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h6 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Amnesia infantil...<\/h6>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-d45106a elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"d45106a\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6343473\" data-id=\"6343473\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7dab72e elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7dab72e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p style=\"margin: 0cm; font-size: medium; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; caret-color: #000000; color: #000000;\">tiene en nosotros la misi\u00f3n de mantener intactos nuestros sistemas de apego cuando hemos sido maltratados o traumatizados.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm; font-size: medium; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; caret-color: #000000; color: #000000;\">Sin este lazo parental quedar\u00edamos expuestos y no sobrevivir\u00edamos.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm; font-size: medium; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; caret-color: #000000; color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm; font-size: medium; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; caret-color: #000000; color: #000000;\">El problema es que olvidar tiene un alto precio, el de revivir el trauma en nuestra adultez y el fallo de los sistemas de intimidad y compromiso en las futuras relaciones.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm; font-size: medium; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; caret-color: #000000; color: #000000;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/websfigueres.com\/abcpsicologos\/#precios\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ABC psic\u00f3logos en M\u00f3stoles<\/a>\u00a0te da las herramientas para que tomes conciencia y mejores tus patrones de relaci\u00f3n actuales.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm; font-size: medium; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; caret-color: #000000; color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm; font-size: medium; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; caret-color: #000000; color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm; font-size: medium; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; caret-color: #000000; color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-962c620 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"962c620\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-bc10bbf\" data-id=\"bc10bbf\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00bfPorqu\u00e9 elijo parejas t\u00f3xicas? 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